Children and Divorce 


Children and divorce unfortunately has become an active agenda in many family homes across the country. As a parent your children are the most important concerns in your life. Everything that you are is rooted from the efforts of being a good parent. It's a funny thing to think about, but your kids are a part of what makes you who you are.

So now you are faced with the crossroad of living your life not as a married mother or father, but as a single parent. Your position as a parent may also change to a noncustodial parent. You may have to experience not living within the same resident as your children. This particular area of separation can be more challenging to everyone involved in one way or another.

There will be some necessary adjustments you will encounter. Some adjustments will have to be change and some will become a priority to remain the same. For instance your children may be involved in school activities and  have built a real interest, you as a parent want to see these activities continue if possible at all cost. Just one of the adjustments parents have to deal with being separated.


Effects on Children and  Divorce

Children of Divorce in today's world are more aggressive and comprehensive. They not only pay more attention to the things which surround them, they also feed daily on the circumstances they are challenge with. Let's just say children realize when the family is being confronted with a drastic change.

It is parents responsibility to communicate with their children to bring them up to speed on family occurrences. In this case children have a right to be informed exactly how their lives will change and what compensations has to be dealt with.

No one has all the answers but there are established guidelines to be followed which can give you a level of control with your particular situation. Normally you may hear; you got to be strong and take charge to establish authority within the home environment. That may be true to a certain extent, but let’s consider, your children are confronted with what every child never wants to face and that is the breakup of their parents.


Children and Divorce

Studies will tell you that your children will experience depression, children anxiety, self doubt, and rejection. They will blame you the parent for not holding the family together. Realize an important factor and that is whether you are a child or adult, a drastic change will affect any human being to a certain extent. It could be like losing a job, a house, car, or something other that is very precious to you. You have to face the problem and then begin a repairing process.

Now we are not going to completely attempt to compare children hurt and pain with those of adults. What cannot be overlooked is that whether a child or adult when someone experience pain and hurt, they want to reach out, express themselves and be heard. You just want relief. Children look to their parents for this relief.


Children Asking Questions

Children and Divorce

This area of parent child relationship is extremely critical. As a parent you want to express to your children you are there to support them. Hearing their point of views is very important especially during a time of family separation.

Your child may express signs of depression, anger, thoughts from their most inner feelings of regret. Just try your best to pay strict attention to them. Allow your child to cry, show their real emotions. This will give you some directions on how to approach different situations which may arise.

The real advantage here is that most parents have some concept of each child’s personal habits and faults. Although divorce is a road never journey before, hearing your children expressing themselves will bring you some hurt, pain and a bit of despair. Nevertheless you have something to work with and this is the importance of communication. Children yearn for the attention and special treatment from their parents. Finding the time to provide these services are going to be a   real challenge.


Giving yourself can be difficult at times, but the sacrifice is truly necessary. Single mothers are known for carrying heavy burdens of their children. Within today’s society quality communication will get you to the next level you seek, hopefully the results which can benefit the entire family.

Children will always be a parent greatest challenge. They will excite you, make you laugh; force you to exercise discipline when necessary. You will find yourself sometimes at their mercy and sometimes they will be at your mercy. What is important is that as a family; each member comes to realize they are important and their opinions matter. These are a few important views concerning children and divorce.


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Sherman Peters
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